Does using large dildos ruin your sex with your husband? I was curious how many girls have used dildos that are much bigger than there husband or boyfriend. I bought my wife a large one a few months ago. I'm fairly large but this one definitely trumps me. she loves it and i love watching her with it but I wonder if she uses it too much will it make it difficult to enjoy regular sex with me. Just looking for any serious input on this from anyone who has had experience. Not interested in funny, annoying, or derogatory comments. |
It's bigger, newer, and different. Different doesn't have to mean bad.
The toy is never going to say I love you, snuggle up to her, make her feel better when she is sick, or from a sexual stand point, It can't pull her hair and smack her ***.
If she's using it and watching you enjoy her using it, she's probably getting of on that, more than the toy itself!
A little background- my hubby and I were only married a short time when I decided to sell toys at home-parties. Neither of us had ever used them before, I just wanted to make extra money. When he saw my starter kit, he was about ready to pack up and leave. He immediately assumed I no longer needed him because I'd have access to all these toys. What we have learned is, for us, toys have never become a replacement, but an ENHANCEMENT to our sex life. It's a very rare occasion that I use toys without him.
Oh- and as far as her "getting too loose", the vagina always returns to it's normal size, the muscular contractions that happen during orgasm see to that. So unless she's given birth in the past 20 minutes, she is the same size she was when you met. She can also do kegel exercises to maintain tightness. |
How do I hide a very large dildo? I'm planing to buy a very very large dildo soon and unlike my other dildos it will be very hard to find. I was just wondering where i could hide or what i could get to hide it in? |
I can't say from personal experience, but if you have a mattress that sits on top of a second frame, the second frame is hollow and the bottom is a thin fabric. You can cut the fabric without effecting the structural integrity of the bed at all, and may be able to tuck it up there. If you can't do that, maybe try to hide it in anything with a removable backplate ie. A rather large guitar amp.
Hope this helps! |
How do I get my girlfriend used to a large dildo? We agreed we wanted to try this out but I'm wondering how to go about it. I bought one for her (9 inches long, 2.5 inches thick) and I was wondering what's the best way to get her used to it so we can have the best possible experience. |
| Use lots of lube but I gotta warn you...once she's had it that big, your 4 inches won't be able to do anything for her ever again. |
Is Allah a Gay being holding a large Dildo? Atheist Rules muzzies! |
| YES |
I found my boyfriend's large dildo and penis pump! He likes doing anal on me. Does he want anal on him? My boyfriend is very sexual, he likes sex allot! Recently I have let him have anal sex with me, and I actually started to like it once I relaxed. We have also tried anal on him with a dildo and he SAID he didn't like it ... but then I found a new dildo that he bought (very large) and a penis pump. I feel like he is lying to me, and masturbating with the dildo and pump while I'm asleep. How do I ask him about it? I obviously went through his private stuff to find it, but we life together and he didn't hide it very well. It makes me nervous that he's keeping this from me. I may even be willing to try anal on him again, but don't want him to be gay! What should I do? |
He more than likely wants to use the large dildo you but i smaybe too shy of bringing it up since you might think it's too big or maybe he does like having his prostate massaged by a big thing.
I would suggest you have him buy a harness for that big dildo and use it as a strap on for he could lay you with it and you can make love normally, then if he wants, you can put it on and give it too him good. I doubt he's gay, just kinky.
The penis pump is pretty obvious, he wants too be larger. |
How can I break my tough hymen? I'm 20 and I've been trying to have sex since I was 15. I've had bigger guys but I can never enjoy sex because it hurts so much! I've tried breaking it with larger dildos but it just hurts so much I can't bare the pain. I can usually put up with pain if the outcome is worth it but this just hurts soooo much! Can I ask my gyno to do it? Please leave suggestions! |
| Your Gyn Doc can do it and it won't hurt as much when he/she does. |